Every moment of every day is a learning experience. The good moments, the “bad” moments, the dull moments – all are an opportunity for growth.
And we can make the choice to live our lives with that belief.
Because quite simply the way that we experience life is mostly due to our outlook, and the way that we perceive events.
What though if we changed our perspective?
What if we believed – truly believed – that everything that happens in our life is meant to be? That everything is happening for a reason?
Because in the end we can choose to be a victim. Or we can choose to have gratitude for each moment, and to learn from it.
Looking at life as an opportunity for growth, we give ourselves the opportunity to embrace each moment for what it is.
With this perspective there are no mistakes – there is only experience, and learning.
With this perspective we can move past fear, and anger and manipulation.
We can learn and truly understand that each moment is bursting with potential – the potential for happiness and acceptance, love and understanding.
Because in the end everything happens as it is meant to.
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I have been working on this all day since I found out my brother has less than six months to live
“Because quite simply the way that we experience life is mostly due to our outlook, and the way that we perceive events. ”
“Everything we perceive as objectively true in this world is actually personal and subjective” – Wang Ni
I do believe this. 🙂